Even when you think you are not ready, the CDS might have other plans for you.
Losing your cat is every cat owner's worst nightmare. They bring us so much joy, they fill our homes with so much peace, and we know that life would look terrifyingly different without them and their shenanigans. As someone who has owned only one cat throughout her life, whose cat is now nearly 12 years old, I can say confidently, with experience, that it's every cat owner's worst nightmare. And sure, senior cats are the cutest, the sweetest, the gentlest and most loving, but they are also the most fragile.
Adopting a senior cat is something that we encourage people to do all the time. Senior cats are less likely to be adopted from shelters, but they deserve homes as much as any kitten. We also understand why it might be more difficult to adopt them. It means potentially having less time with them, losing them sooner, and like we said, that's every cat owner's worst fear. And the pain of the loss… some of us handle it better than others, but it's devastating to us all. I don't know, personally, how long it will take me to adopt again after that fateful day comes. Maybe, just like the person in today's story, I will vow never to adopt again. And maybe, just like it happened to them, the CDS will have other plans for me and purrsonally deliver me a kitten that I simply cannot say no to. Maybe that's the CDS's way of helping us deal with grief.